HELP ME GHOST MY CHEATING BOYFRIEND

I have a crazy idea and I need you to help me make a game plan. So last week I found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me. I found messages with graphic details about them hooking up and that was enough for me. He hasn’t been the greatest partner anyway so I don’t feel the need to fight for this relationship anymore. For context, we have an apartment together. I haven’t said anything to him yet because I saw a TikTok of a girl who was cheated on moving out and blocking the guy and just completely going ghost. I feel like that was just the most bad b*tch move and I want to do something like that to prove the point of his disrespect being all the closure I need. Helpppp

Oh my gosh this is a wild idea but I love it. Good for you for realizing your worth and just being done. I’m sure those messages made you absolutely sick and no one deserves to be stuck with someone who cares so little for their heart. 

First things first - you need to have a plan on where to go. Contact a friend or family member and let them know your plan and find a safe place to stay while you get back on your feet. If you can financially find a place of your own and set it up in time, then thats great too. Obviously, I do not know your financial situation but you should anticipate tying any loose ends with your living expenses. If you can call and separate joint accounts, that would be helpful. If not, be prepared to pay your half even if you have no contact with your soon-to-be ex. 

Next, find an opportunity to leave. Maybe call out of work a day you know he is working. Maybe plan to do this a weekend he is away doing something. Plan what you have to pack and try to sneak things out of the house ahead of time. Maybe you can purge some closets and tell him you are just cleaning and organizing. You could also pack things in boxes or packages and tell him they are holiday presents. Be creative and think like a liar. 

Finally, when you do get out, block his number and social media. Remove your location if you share. Walk out and never look back at this loser. Stick to your gut and your plan. Some may say you should leave a note but I honestly feel like you should print out a screenshot of their messages or something. Let his words be your last words. Like I said, be creative. If you are going to pull of something diabolical like this, you might as well go all the way! 

This idea is totally bananas, but I am so looking forward to hearing an update. Be safe and stay strong!